Anxiety a
modern disease...
Phobias, panic
attacks, and nerves all have anxiety at their root, and
when someone comes to seek therapy it is usually because
their life is being adversely affected by it in some way.
Anxiety is an everyday feeling, so why is it universally
experienced as aversive and why do we all suffer from it?
The answer is that anxiety is a feeling or a state we
experience when our body is preparing to either escape from
danger or to stand and fight. Typically called the fight or
flight response. This is the role of the sympathetic
nervous system and is the body’s defense mechanism. It does
things like causing the pupils to dilate, increase the
heart rate and send blood to the large muscles like those
in the legs and arms.
This is all done through the release of the hormones and
chemicals in the body and, in a situation where there is a
real danger, you would be too busy running, fighting or
helping someone else, to notice how you are feeling. Once
the perceived danger is over then the relevant hormones are
no longer released and the body returns to normal in a few
minutes.
The trouble we have is that our unconscious mind does not
know the difference between real and perceived danger,
thats why you find yourself sitting on the edge of your
seat during a horror film, because your unconscious mind is
preparing your body to escape.
Panic attacks can be triggered by a variety of things but
it is our minds that makes them so debilitating, we end up
fearing the fear itself and are then caught in cycles of
panic that can go on and on.
General anxiety and stress are caused by the bodies same
response as panic but are less intense but generally more
continued.. like the stressed executive, his fear is always
there, the deadline or the chance of not getting promoted.
A lot of phobias (irrational fears) have an element of
reason behind them. A fear of spiders, snakes, the dark,
open spaces, confined spaces, heights… they all may have
been helpful to our ancestors and even occasionally to us
today, but when these fears become irrational and develop
into something that prevent us living our lives as we would
like to, then we can question what is going on in our
minds.
The way we think affects the way we feel and the way we
behave. In fact they each affect each other. However, the
forerunners of cognitive psychotherapy, which is a
relatively new form of therapy, realised that if we change
the way we think then our feelings and our behaviour will
also change.
This isn’t such a new idea, in ancient Greece the
philosopher Epictetus said “People are not disturbed by
things, but by the view they take of them” and in Hamlet
Shakespeare said that “..there is nothing good or bad in
this world, only our thinking makes it so.”
Therapy for all these problems involve changing the way we
think, CBT or cognitive Behavioural Therapy seems to be the
preferred way of working in the NHS, CBT can work very well
with hypnotherapy as well. We can literally train ourselves
to think realistically.
Often hypnotherapy work would involve elements of CBT, to
train you to be more realistic in your thinking, along with
suggestion therapy to literally reprogram you not to be
afraid and also, where appropriate, emotional based
hypnotherapy, that aims to discover and remove the very
root cause of the problem.
Learn to accept your
symptoms and prevent panic
In order to help
you not turn your anxiety into a full blown panic attack it
is useful to practice acceptance of the symptoms, many
people think that they are going to die when they are
getting a panic attack! This fear leads to the release of
further catecholamines (the hormones responsible for the
fight or flight changes happening in the body) In reality
the body is just preparing to run or fight. Here are some
statements that you might find useful to work with in
response to common symptoms of panic. They can be worked
with in self hypnosis to really hammer them home!...
For a fast, hard
beating heart...
You Can Slow
your Heart Rate: this is just due to the adrenaliine in
your system and the natural fight or flight response.
People do not die from having a fast heart rate.
“My heart could beat like this for weeks and I’d be just
fine”
For imbalance...
You can feel
balanced: this is a product of hyperventilation/ tension in
neck and jaw
“This will pass when I relax and slow my breathing”
Difficulty breathing...
You can breathe
fully and deeply: this is a product of tightness in the
diaphragm, causing short quick breaths into the top of the
lungs.
“Push the old air out, take a new breath. Push the old air
out, take a new breath etc”
Wobbly legs...
You can feel
strength in your legs: this is the blood pooling in your
thighs.
“this is just my legs preparing to run, they are stronger
than usual right now”
Difficulty
swallowing...
You can swallow
freely: this feeling is due to tension in the throat and
will pass when you relax.
“I can yawn away the tension in my throat”
Feeling hot or cold...
You can feel hot
or cold and thats OK: this is due to change sin blood
pressure and the nervous system, preparing you for fight or
flight.
“This will pass in a few minutes”
Feeling light headed...
You can feel
clear headed: due to an increase of oxygen in the blood and
blood pooling in the large muscles. Can be stopped by slow
deep breathing with a closed mouth.
“I can just breathe deeply and slowly to clear my
mind.”