Stop
Smoking.
Hypnosis has a good reputation for helping people to quit
smoking and deservedly so. However, no matter how good the
therapist, you will only be successful if you really want
to quit and you're prepared for the rest of the battle.
Thats why I believe that preparation is so important, its
as important as the hypnotherapy itself. If a client stops
smoking for 6 months and then starts again, I consider the
therapy to have been a failure.
The key to this work is understanding that the smoking
habit gets into our very psyche. We must be aware that once
we quit it will try to make us start smoking again at any
opportunity. It will be there hanging around for a long
time. I always tell my clients that they should be aware
that they need to remain vigilant for at least a year after
they’ve stopped smoking. In fact the only way that you’ll
know that you’ve truly cracked the habit is when you can
really see that cigarettes only take from you, they don’t
give you anything, and when you really realise this on an
emotional level then you will truly have no desire to smoke
again.
When you have this nasty habit inside your psyche it can be
really difficult to believe that you won’t actually be
losing anything by stopping. You feel that life could never
be quite as good in one way or another... THATS THE
ADDICTION TALKING - ITS RUBBISH. Life in fact becomes so
much better in so many ways, but you’ll just have to take
my word for it! (for now...)
The only way to stop smoking forever and to get rid of the
nasty lurker in your psyche is to say “never again”, not
one puff of another cigarette ever again. If you would like
to be able to say that, but don’t think you have the
strength, thats fine, thats why you’re here looking for
some help.
People generally start smoking again for two reasons..
1. The habit creeps back at the moment you thought you had
it beaten. That quick drag of someone else's cigarette
means that you're a smoker again… that’s all it takes.
2. Something happens in your life that leaves you feeling
you have nowhere to turn, so you go back to your old friend
… the cigarette.
Hypnosis can help you to change the way you look at
cigarettes and smoking and it can help you make a committed
and permanent decision to stop. Once the decision has been
made and the cut is clean it can further help by
eliminating the desire to smoke. It can also help us find
alternative patterns of thought (often deep in the
subconscious) that can be called on to replace the need for
smoking as an emotional crutch.
For suitable clients I can offer a single, stop smoking
session tailored to you during which we cover all the above
and more. You will leave my office as a non-smoker with a
cd to reinforce the session.
You will often see hypnotherapists saying 8 out of 10
smokers quit straight away. Ever wondered about the 2 in 10
why didn’t they quit? Well, some people realise that they
never really wanted to quit in the first place, maybe they
were being pressured by someone close to them. The rest I
would suggest are more compulsive in their smoking, they
have emotional needs that are met by the smoking or maybe
being kept at bay by the habit. These people can still give
up, but the work needs to be a little more careful, often
we will need to see what it is that they haven’t faced in
their life, that the smoking is helping them not to have to
face.
This sort of work leaves us with the choice of either
dealing with the emotional issues which can take a series
of sessions to clear up and then focussing on the habit, or
reducing the smoking gradually and using ego strengthening
in place of the cigarettes while they are being reduced and
finally stopped altogether.